No other life style can offer what the life style of the hobbyist offers. The man who goes the route of having a wife or SO (significant other) has chosen a certain structure in life for him self. That structure will revolve in relating to the woman on an on going basis, currently and in the future.
The man who is a professional hobbyist can not devote time to such a traditional life style. The hobbyists future is planned that the routine of his life today and in the future, will involve having sex with many different women, perhaps 2 or 3 or more a week.
On one hand there is great pleasure involved in such a life style. Think of it from a guys perspective, what could be more meaningful that having sex for a half hour or an hour 3 times a week with different young beautiful women with hot bodies? Part of the joy in such esoteric hook ups is that as sinful as the man is in the hook up, the strange women are volunteering of their body in the same manner the man is. In other words, this arrangement works for the hobbyist and it works for the different women too.
Again, the man who has a wife and is faithful to her, forfeits the hobbyist life style described above.
A person may say, aaahhhh such a life style is superficial and lacks true meaning. That may or may not be true. The hobbyist life style avoids many of the real hardships of life, such as divorce, the problems associated with relationships and an on going continuity of having to relate to people. The hobbyist has opportunity to start with a clean slate every day. The man with a wife or SO has an on going relationship and the ups and downs of such a relationship. The hobbyist simply has a few beautiful women per week to have sex with, enjoy her body, enjoy some conversation with her and enjoy the sinful pleasures of what both the woman and hobbyist are willingly sharing with one another.
Is the hobbyist life style perfect? NO. But neither is the traditional civilian life style. The thing the hobbyist life style affords though, is a clean slate every day. There is great freedom in the hobbyist life style that an on going monogamous or swinger relationship can not offer.
However, like most things in life, you need to have a certain level of good health and well being to enjoy the hobbyist life style. If you have a cold or a flu, you can not enjoy physical intimacy with 3 strange and new to you women per week. You have to feel well to hook up.
Your dick has to work! :) Think of it, a woman just has to lay there and receive. A man has to be able to get it up. The man who can not attain and maintain a hard on, is not a man who is gonna enjoy the hobbyist life style to the fullest. Just like having a cold or a flu or aches and pains, that is not conducive to enjoying the hobbyist life style.
The hobbyist life style cuts to the chase. You don't have to invest money in a fine car, fancy home furnishings or even the most stylish of clothes. You don't even have to have a fancy home. All that you need to do is maintain your self in general good health, have a hard cock, and be in the mind, body and spirit to sexually enjoy a few willing hot babe women per week. What is not to like? :)
Well, looking at it from the perspective I described above, traditional relationships are really a whole bunch of complexity that possibly may not lead to the most meaningful of a life style. On top of all that, once in a traditional relationship, you must forsake the hobbyist life style or at best do a compromise which would be a swinger life style.
The hobbyist life style values women primarily as a willing submissive sex object. It is a given that the hobbyist will experience a few women per week who will share her sexual intimacy with thee hobbyist. There is some thing in it for the woman too. This by the half hour or hour exchange of intimacy works for her and benefits her life too. This is why you have sooo many women who are willing participants in such an exchange of sexual intimacy.
The hobbyist life style avoids the drama of women. You get to experience the best the beautiful woman has to offer. Her body, her body parts, maybe a little pleasant conversation, but none of the inevitable drama of having an on going relationship with her.
The hobbyist who breaks the prime directive with a woman for hire, is the hobbyist who opens his life up to drama. This does happen though, typically because this woman who he hires via the half hour or hour fulfills some thing with in his innate self that was not fulfilled in quite a while. The hobbyist has natural feelings for this woman and the hobbyist is losing focus of what the prime directive is. Meaning, there are two other strange women to experience later in the week and 3 other new ones next week. If he has an attachment and feelings for one and it cultivates into a friendship or relationship, the hobbyist then opens himself up to all the problems Man in a civilian relationship has. Except for one major difference. That is......
Now the hobbyist is trying to have a relationship with a woman who has sex with strangers. That is like going from the frying pan into the fire. Yes, on one hand, there IS great freedom in having a girl friend who has sex with strangers in the same manner that you have sex with strangers. However, all of the things that you are trying to avoid via living the hobbyist life style, you take on via dating an escort. Except in this case you take on a double whammy of drama that all escorts have compared to civilian women.
Take my word on this, escorts as a general rule have twice the amount of drama in their life as compared to women who are not escorts.
Typically escorts earn twice the amount of money or more as compared to a civilian woman and the escort is typically twice as broke. Why? Often times party materials and other times general poor judgment which led them into escorting in the first place.
Is the hobbyist life style every thing? No. It is some thing though that the civilian life style can never offer. That is sexual intimacy with a few different hot babe women per week, with minimal drama.
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