Sunday, March 11, 2012

Honeymoons - The Hobbyist - Committment - An Observation

I was thinking about this earlier before my date last night. What is it that draws the hobbyist to continually hobby? In one aspect, it is like in traditional society, the honeymoon. When Man marries Woman, he finally settles down and claims his concubine. He bought the package, hook line and sinker.

Elizabeth Taylor was married like 8 times. I imagine she must like wedding parties, receptions and ceremonies. To the hobbyist, the searching for and having a date with a new to him woman, is like going on a honeymoon. 

The modern day version of Elizabeth Taylor is Kim Kardashian, or perhaps news woman Juliette Huddy.  Juliette, a reasonably young beautiful blonde has been married and divorced like 4 times.  In typical modern day woman tradition, she's gonna take no shit from a man and surely no man is gonna hold over her head her past failure track record.  Like Kim Kardashian, sha la la la live for today and don't worry about tomorrow and how many husbands you've married, till it comes.

The Married Man is celebrating the package that he just bought into. Except in the case of the hobbyist, his honeymoon only lasts a half hour, hour or for how ever much time he purchased.

For the hobbyist, the honeymoon is over when he shoots his cum shot. Then he gets to seek a new honeymoon in a few days or week, when he seeks out a new escort to experience intimately.



Not all hobbyists are created alike.  All of us have different motivations and perspectives.  The one commonality though that we share, is the fact that we look upon having sex with newly met women kinda as a sport.  Yes, it is a hobby.  No different than the man who plays golf, goes bowling, often shoots guns at the shooting range, or plays tennis.


Except in the case of the hobbyist, his hobby is having sex with strange and new to him women.


Hugh Hefner is a hobbyist, as is Max Hardcore.  The faithfully married man who is monogamous and whose cum shot is exclusively derived via his wife's sexually induced work, is not a hobbyist.  This married man bought into the correct program of life, that Man is to fall in love with ONE woman and remain faithful to her till death due them part.


That is a fine concept.  Reality is though, that despite most all people go into such a commitment with the sincerest of intentions, rarely does the commitment ever work out.


A married couple who are swingers are a derivative of the hobbyist.  Their commitment to one another acknowledges the fact in order for their committed relationship to one another to work, they MUST also allow sexual intimacy with other couples or gals as a part of their committed relationship.

This aforementioned swinger couple example knows that monogamy in it self will not work for them.


The hobbyist simply came to the conclusion that having sex with many different women, as a life style, is a life style that works for him, much better than the preordained "right" life style of staying faithful to ONE woman till death due you part.


Did Hillary Clinton divorce Bill Clinton after knowing that Monica Lewinsky has repeatedly sucked her husbands cock?  No !  Why?  Cause Hillary is a modern day woman who realizes that Man innately needs a new woman to experience every now and then.

Would Hillary give Bill carte blanche freedom in hooking up with other women?  No !  But that is the price Bill paid for committing to one woman and not choosing the life of a hobbyist like so many other men have chosen.

The life of the hobbyist, is it perfect?  No, in my opinion.  It sure gives better value for your money than paying alimony does though!

It sure is a lot nicer to enjoy the milk with out having to buy the cow.

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