Like going for a swim in the pool, things happen to materialize in phases. There are times when I would go for a swim 4 or 5 times in a typical week and do this for many months in succession and then for no particular reason a year or half a year would drift by with me never going for a swim.
There was a time when I would almost exclusively peruse independent girls and had a general rule that I would not peruse an agency girl even if the girl had qualities that made her so attractive that I definitely wanted to see her.
Why such thoughts or feelings?
When I almost exclusively saw independent girls, the thinking and logic was that an independent girl would ALWAYS give me a better date via not being a clock watcher and also via not having to share her session fee with the middle man aka as the agency owner.
I simply saw no logic in seeing an agency girl, who I knew had a set regimented allotted time in which she could share her self with me. More or less, if you see an agency girl for a half hour date, there will be a call in time and almost precisely 30 minutes later, the agency will call the girl to let her know time is up.
What's the problem with this you may say, why expect more time than you purchased? There is no problem with it other than the fact that with an independent girl this is typically not a set in stone issue or variable to consider.
Another reason for preferring the independent girl, was the fact that it was exclusively her and you. She could show you her best services because she liked you personally and not because she was having to do it because she knew she also had to satisfy her boss aka the agency owner.
What made me sway, as a hobbyist, from primarily seeing independent girls to primarily seeing agency girls?
You have to understand WHY hobbyists are hobbyists and why hobbyists see escorts in the first place. 9 times out of 10, there is some sort of problem that a hobbyist is avoiding in real life that he does not have to experience when he purchases intimate time with a woman.
That sentence is worth repeating, so I will say it again.
9 times out of 10, there is some sort of problem that a hobbyist is avoiding in real life that he does not have to experience when he purchases intimate time with a woman.
The problem may be that the man is stuck in a relationship with his wife and it is simply the lesser of two evils to see an escort as compared with divorcing his wife. The problem may be that for what ever reason, a hook up with an escort cuts to the chase and the hobbyists gets what he wants with out the work, trouble or aggravation of getting it in any other manner than simply paying a woman to get it.
Here is where agency girls end up having opportunity to look better and more attractive than independent girls and I am not taking about her physical appearance.
Keep in mind the 9 out of 10 reasons why a hobbyist is seeing an escort as opposed to a civilian woman for his intimate desires. That is, once again, there is some sort of problem that a hobbyist is avoiding in real life that he does not have to experience when he purchases intimate time with a woman.
Ever hear of the phrase, children should be seen and not heard?
What does this phrase mean? My interpretation is that at a family gathering in which adults and children are present, it should be that the primary conversation of adults and when a child is asked to speak, they speak. When not asked, they are to be seen, but remain quiet.
Why is this? Because children continually speaking can be a problem and distraction. Hence, children are to be seen and not heard.
How does this fit into the comparison of a hobbyist seeing an independent girl versus an agency girl? Very simple. Since advent of escort review boards, which are the primary means of a hobbyist gathering info on the girl he desires to have a date with, agency girls 99% of the time do not have an active role in expressing their thoughts via writing on an escort review board.
It is said via a wise hobbyist, that every post of a woman is an ad. What does that mean? It means that every time a woman writes some thing or posts on a board in which men can read, the man is determining if this is the type of woman he desires to see for a date.
Do not forget the reason why men see escorts. They are seeing them to avoid some problem that they would have to deal with in real life if they did not pay a woman for intimate time with her self.
A woman who often posts on a review board must never forget that.
Do not become the problem that men are trying to avoid!
Most hobbyists desire to avoid drama when they have a date with an escort. Since agency girls typically do not have opportunity to share their thoughts on a review board like how independent girls can, they have the great advantage of shutting the fuck up, whereas the independent girl runs her mouth all day long, in effect fucking up her business more than if she never spoke a word.
I think there is some Old Testament law that states women are not to speak in church either. I do not know if it were written for the same reason that children are to be seen and not heard, but surely it would create the same positive effect!
Why do escorts post drama and get into fights and battles with other girls? There can be a whole psychological analysis of that which would fill a whole thread in itself. I guess the primary reason is that these girls feel the need to express them selves no matter what the out come of that expression is. In other words, even if that expression makes them appears as bitches, chronic complainers, drama queens and all things worst than what the hobbyist is trying to avoid via seeing an escort, these run of the mouth problem escorts do not see it that way.
This is the great advantage agency girls have over independent girls.
Imagine that, an agency girl does not have a platform in which to express her thoughts via the written word and that makes her the more desirable woman to see. Imagine that!
Another advantage the agency has over the independent, is the very fact that men are dogs and would often prefer to see different women as opposed to seeing the same one many times.
The agency via its very nature has a constant influx of new women and existing women departing. One way for Man to avoid the problems of Woman is to continually see different women for every date he has. Agencies help in this endeavor.
Till the man in the sky or the man with the pitch fork claims us, may your greatest conflict in life be the choice between having sex with a hot babe independent girl or having sex with a hot babe agency girl.
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